Are you clear about what you want to do in life? Really clear?
Do you have an overview of concepts? Such as lots of buzz words, good ideas and very much ‘yes I’ll do that’, but without putting much thought into it?
Or do you have lots of ideas and thoughts and kind of plans and you seem ‘not to really get anywhere’? A bit stuck.
May be you need a plan?
Planning, explaining saves fire fighting. A plan will avoid so many problems and get you what you want.
Answer all of the questions below. Get someone else to read the questions out to you preferably and to write your answers down. You can think better that way. If some of the questions don’t make sense, then go onto the next question, just leave that one out. When you’ve finished, then sit together and start to work out what you could do and where you need to go to ask more questions.
What do you want and where do you want to be?
Where you going / what are you working towards?
What problems do you want to avoid?
Do you know anyone else who has done this kind of thing? Would it be okay to ask them for some info on what the pitfalls were? Any tips they might have?
What will this (thing you want to do) look like?
What will this (thing you want to do) sound like?
What will this (thing you want to do) feel like?
How will you feel?
Do you need any support?
What sequence of steps or stages will you need to put in place to achieve what you want?
What will this help you to avoid?
How will you divide what you want into small enough chunks or steps so that each one is do-able?
What else needs to be there for you to achieve this (thing you want to do) and for you to know that this (thing you want to do) is really right for you and your family?
Is this (thing you want to do) right for you in all circumstances in your life?
Is this (thing you want to do) appropriate for your personal relationships?
What will this (thing you want to do) give you that you might not have had before?
What will having this (thing you want to do) cause you to lose?
Does any part of you object to putting all of this in place? (If so how will you deal with that?)
Is it within your power or ability to achieve this?
What is the first step?
Can you take this first step?
Off you go…… after all what’s stopping you?
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